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Tom Hayes Holiday Brunch – Dec.15th, 2024

We’ve listened to your input to improve one of the best holiday brunches in Northern New Jersey.

 

DEC 15-2024 TOM HAYES HOLIDAY BRUNCH

$60 > AT THE FIESTA RTE. 17S WOOD RIDGE, NJ

ANNUAL HOLIDAY GET TOGETHER FOR ALL SUPPORTERS, CLIENTS,

STAFF, COMMUNITY MEMBERS, FAMILY & FRIENDS

TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED IN ADVANCE

CLICK THE BELOW LINK & DO SO NOW!

https://24brunch.eventbrite.com

*** TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED IN ADVANCE – NO TICKETS SOLD DAY OF ***

Single – $60.00 ea. / Clients & Children Under 12 – $40.00 ea. /Table of 10 – $550.00

Brunch | Silent Auction | and More!

Make this a family and friend celebration … with our family at Buddies.

It is time for everyone to be together before the holidays!

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Los boletos individuales cuestan $ 60.00 / Una Mesa de 10 cuestan $550.00

Subasta silenciosa | Sorteo de TV | ¡y más!

Haga de esto una celebración familiar y de amigos … con nuestra familia en Buddies.

¡Es un momento para que todos estén juntos antes de las dias festivos!

WORLD AIDS DAY is DECEMBER 1st (every year) 

This year we invite you to TWO FREE EVENTS

that commemorates those we lost from HIV/AIDS,

honors those who struggle with this disease today, and

celebrates those who are helping to bring this epidemic to an end.

REGISTER HERE so that we can prepare food and space.

 

ALL communities are being called to join us and be part of commemorating  those we lost AND working together to end HIV epidemics.   Remember. Educate. Defeat.

LatinX HIV Awareness Day

Take time today to let your friends know that you care by getting an HIV Test with them. Discuss if PrEP is something good for you or someone you know.

Visit your local AIDS Service Organization and find out how you can work together to make things better in your community!

 

Tómate el tiempo hoy para hacerles saber a tus amigos que te preocupas haciéndote una prueba de VIH con ellos. Analice si la PrEP es buena para usted o para alguien que conoce.

¡Visite su organización local de servicios para el SIDA y descubra cómo pueden trabajar juntos para mejorar las cosas en su comunidad!

Halloween Party | OCT. 19th | Pathways for Buddies

Pathways transgender support  is sponsoring a fundraiser for Buddies of NJ, Inc.

HOPE TO SEE EVERYONE THERE TO SUPPORT THIS! vikki.eventbrite.com

GAY MEN’S HIV AWARENESS DAY | SEPT. 27th

Dear colleague

September 24, 2024

 

September 27 is National Gay Men’s HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (NGMHAAD), a day when we reaffirm our commitment to ending the disproportionate impact of HIV on gay and bisexual men in the United States.

Recently, encouraging progress shows declines in new infections among gay and bisexual men overall, as well as among many sub-groups most affected by HIV. However, gay and bisexual men continue to be most affected by HIV. Of the 31,800 estimated new HIV infections in the United States in 2022, 67% (21,400) were among this group. In 2022, almost half (47%) of new HIV infections among gay and bisexual men were in the South, and nearly 3/4 (73%) of those were among Black/African American and Hispanic/Latino men.

The annual number of estimated new HIV infections in 2022 compared to 2018 shows an overall decrease among gay and bisexual men of 10%. Age-specific trends reveal a 31% decrease among all young gay and bisexual men ages 13-24, and by region, a 16% decrease among gay and bisexual men who live in the South. Among Black/African American gay and bisexual men, there was a significant overall decrease of 16%, including a 26% reduction among young Black/African American men aged 13-24. Similarly, among white gay and bisexual men, there was a 20% overall decrease, including a 39% reduction among young white men aged 13-24. Cases among Hispanic/Latino gay and bisexual men remained stable, indicating a need for better understanding of the situation and improved support.

Although progress is being made, it has been uneven, and we should ensure we decrease inequities while we reduce new infections and help people access treatment. Pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) is a key tool in continuing to reduce new HIV infections, and recent surveillance data from the National HIV Behavioral Surveillance (NHBS) system show increases in PrEP awareness and use among a survey of gay and bisexual men. From 2017 to 2023, the percentage of gay and bisexual men who were aware of PrEP increased from 85% to 93%, and PrEP use among gay and bisexual men increased from 25% to 45%. Overall increases in PrEP prescriptions among people who could benefit show that, since the implementation of Ending the HIV Epidemic in the U.S.

 in 2019, the number of people in the U.S. who have been prescribed PrEP has increased. Even so, the reach of this strategy is far from equal, and substantial racial and ethnic disparities persist. Although Black/African American gay and bisexual men and Hispanic/Latino gay and bisexual men reported increases in PrEP awareness and use over the same period, more culturally and linguistically appropriate access to HIV testing and prevention services is needed, including PrEP and post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP). We must work to eliminate HIV stigma and other barriers to compassionate, culturally competent HIV care.

To address these disparities, CDC is launching PrEPared/PrEParado, a new social marketing initiative under CDC’s Let’s Stop HIV Together campaign to increase PrEP uptake and maintenance among Black/African American and Hispanic/Latino gay and bisexual men in the South. PrEPared aims to encourage conversations about PrEP between Black/African American and Hispanic/Latino gay and bisexual men and their providers, increase the numbers of providers prescribing PrEP, and increase the number of Black/African American and Hispanic/Latino gay and bisexual men in the South who get and stay on PrEP. In the coming months, CDC will partner with health departments and local partners across the South for co-implementation of the initiative.

To address HIV-related disparities among gay and bisexual men, CDC has funding available to support health departments in implementing comprehensive HIV prevention and surveillance programs, including focused interventions for gay and bisexual men, like doxycycline post-exposure prophylaxis (doxy PEP) for prevention of bacterial sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and also provides funding opportunities to support community-based organizations focused on HIV testing, prevention, and linkage to HIV treatment among this key population. CDC has also funded Emory University and partners to launch Together TakeMeHome (TTMH)

, a nationwide program to expand distribution of HIV self-tests directly to consumers by mail. In the first year, from March 14, 2023, through March 13, 2024, the program distributed 443,813 tests to 219,360 people. Among those who responded to a post-order questionnaire, 44% (75,295) were gay and bisexual men. These data suggest that distributing HIV self-tests by mail can reach large numbers of people, many who have never taken an HIV test or have not been tested as often as recommended.

CDC’s Let’s Stop HIV Together campaign offers valuable resources to support national HIV prevention efforts. Let’s Stop HIV Together is an evidence-based campaign created in English and Spanish that aims to empower communities, partners, and health care providers to reduce HIV stigma and promote HIV testing, prevention

, and treatment. If you are a clinician and want to learn more about prescribing PrEP or find resources to share with your patients, visit our HIV Nexus. To help us promote NGMHAAD this year, download and share our many resources on PrEP and share social media content from CDC’s digital toolkit using the #NGMHAAD hashtag.

Together, we can all work to reduce HIV-related disparities among gay and bisexual men and continue our hard-earned progress toward ending the HIV epidemic in the United States.

Sincerely, 

/Robyn Fanfair/ 
Robyn Neblett Fanfair, MD, MPH
Captain, USPHS
Division Director
Division of HIV Prevention 
National Center for HIV, Viral Hepatitis, STD, and TB Prevention
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention 
www.cdc.gov/hiv

/Jonathan Mermin/
Jonathan Mermin, MD, MPH
Rear Admiral, USPHS (Ret.)
Director
National Center for HIV, Viral Hepatitis, STD, and TB Prevention
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
Stay connected: @DrMerminCDC & Connections

HIV & AGING AIDS AWARENESS DAY

SEPTEMBER 18
If your over 50 and Living With HIV…  Stop By S.E.L.F. Support Group TONIGHT at 6:30PM
There will be a small raffle for all in attendance.
People over 50 in New Jersey
account for more than half of the People Living With HIV/AIDS.
Make an appointment to get a FREE HIV test at Buddies
and/or bring a friend for one this September!
Help End the Epidemic by 2025

GHMC HIV & Aging Awareness Day Webinar:

recording available at aginghiv.org!

HIV Testing & Counseling

Questions: E-mail a TEAM MEMBER at testing@njbuddies.org
to schedule a testing appointment

PrEP Services – One Pill A Day to Prevent a Lifetime of HIV

Find out if PrEP is right for you!
Please call 201-489-2900 to schedule an appointment;
you may also e-mail eric@njbuddies.org

HAPPY HISPANIC HERITAGE MONTH

September 15 to October 15 is National Hispanic American Heritage Month
The Library of Congress, National Archives and Records Administration, National Endowment for the Humanities, National Gallery of Art, National Park Service, Smithsonian Institution and United States Holocaust Memorial Museum join in paying tribute to the generations of Hispanic Americans who have positively influenced and enriched our nation and society.

Demons, Yemaya Goddess of the Living Ocean chromogenic print.

9 Latinx Artists to Know

Learn about the lives and works of artists from the 1930s to today, all represented in the National Gallery of Art’s collection.

National Gallery of Art

Image Credit: Martine Gutierrez, Demons, Yemaya “Goddess of the Living Ocean”, 2018, chromogenic print in hand-painted artist’s frame, National Gallery of Art, Pepita Milmore Memorial Fund, 2022.180.3

Tree of Life artwork created by Verónica Castillo

National Museum of the American Latino 

The contributions and experiences of Latinos in the United States are an essential part of our nation’s history and culture. The National Museum of the American Latino will showcase the achievements and contributions of Latinos to American history.

Smithsonian | National Museum of the American Latino

Image credit: National Museum of the American Latino

A section of text from the documents related to Sylvia Mendez collection.

Featured Document Display: Sylvia Mendez and the Struggle for Mexican American Civil Rights

When the Mendez family tried to enroll in the majority-white school near their home, they were instead sent to a segregated school for Hispanic students. The Mendez family filed a lawsuit, arguing that segregating children based on ethnicity was a violation of the 14th Amendment. Documents from their historic lawsuit will be on display at the National Archives Museum through October 15, 2024.

National Archives

Image credit: National Archives

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Mi Parque, Mi Historia

National Hispanic Heritage Month traditionally honors the cultures and contributions of both Hispanic and Latino Americans as we celebrate heritage rooted in all Latin American countries.

National Park Service

Image credit: National Park Service

Portrait of veteran Jose Sol, USAAF in uniform.

Hispanic American Veterans

Asked to serve their country in time of war, Hispanic Americans displayed courage and valor in the face of adversity. Familiar with discrimination back home, many saw their service as affirming the ideals of democracy. In this presentation, the Veterans History Project recounts their inspirational stories.

Library of Congress

Image credit: Jose Sol, USAAF, Library of Congress

Lithograph displaying a family making tamales in a kitchen.

Hispanic Heritage Month Resources

On this webpage of resources curated by the National Museum of the American Latino, you’ll find a list of why and how we celebrate Latino communities and their contributions to American society, a list of virtual exhibits featuring Latino history, bilingual resources, stories of Latino achievements, and more.

Smithsonian

Image credit: Carmen Lomas Garza, Tamalada, 1990, color lithograph, 20 x 27 in. (50.8 x 68.6 cm), Smithsonian American Art Museum, Museum purchase made possible by John B. Turner, 1997.5, (c) 1990, Carmen Lomas Garza

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Walgreens is collecting funds for our NJAW

Today, September 11th until

Tuesday, September 24th Walgreens

in the Southern and Western Areas of NJ

Walgreens is helping to get the 2025 NJAW

an early push to raise funds for clients at our agencies…

  

Please try to visit and thank the participaiting Walgreen stores in AREA 58 see the list below:
OCEAN 2353 ROUTE 9 TOMS RIVER, NJ 08755-1219 OCEAN
CAMDEN 625 N BLACK HORSE PIKE BLACKWOOD, NJ 08012-3957 CAMDEN
CAMDEN 630 CHEWS LANDING RD LINDENWOOD, NJ 08021 CAMDEN
CAMDEN 4601 WESTFIELD AVE PENNSAUKEN, NJ 08110-3029 CAMDEN
OCEAN 430 HARMONY RD JACKSON, NJ 08527-4417 OCEAN
CAMDEN 100 WHITE HORSE PIKE N MAGNOLIA, NJ 08049-1466 CAMDEN
OCEAN 1890 ROUTE 88 BRICK, NJ 08724-3535 OCEAN
OCEAN 1158 WASHINGTON ST TOMS RIVER, NJ 08753-6800 OCEAN
MONMOUTH 425 W MAIN ST FREEHOLD, NJ 07728-2519 MONMOUTH
GLOUCESTER 1408 DELSEA DR WOODBURY, NJ 08096-4101 GLOUCESTER
BURLINGTON 2 W ROUTE 130 N BURLINGTON, NJ 08016-2644 BURLINGTON
CAMDEN 8 HADDON AVE HADDON TOWNSHIP, NJ 08108-2706 CAMDEN
CAMDEN 590 CROSS KEYS RD SICKLERVILLE, NJ 08081-9566 CAMDEN
BURLINGTON 4296 ROUTE 130 WILLINGBORO, NJ 08046-2027 BURLINGTON
GLOUCESTER 13 N BLACK HORSE PIKE WILLIAMSTOWN, NJ 08094-1402 GLOUCESTER
OCEAN 2479 CHURCH RD TOMS RIVER, NJ 08753-8109 OCEAN
GLOUCESTER 180 BRIDGETON PIKE MANTUA, NJ 08051-1569 GLOUCESTER
CUMBERLAND 1111 N HIGH ST MILLVILLE, NJ 08332-2528 CUMBERLAND
CAMDEN 1819 MARLTON PIKE W CHERRY HILL, NJ 08002-3206 CAMDEN
BURLINGTON 404 ROUTE 73 S EVESHAM, NJ 08053-2048 BURLINGTON
BURLINGTON 3046 ROUTE 38 MOUNT LAUREL, NJ 08054-9723 BURLINGTON
MERCER 16 PRINCETON HIGHTSTOWN RD EAST WINDSOR, NJ 08520-1909 MERCER
CUMBERLAND 9 LANDIS AVE BRIDGETON, NJ 08302-4315 CUMBERLAND
OCEAN 2546 HOOPER AVE BRICK, NJ 08723-6239 OCEAN
MERCER 1096 ROUTE 33 TRENTON, NJ 08690-2710 MERCER
WARREN 1982 ROUTE 57 HACKETTSTOWN, NJ 07840-3470 WARREN
OCEAN 879 W BAY AVE BARNEGAT, NJ 08005-2127 OCEAN
OCEAN 400 ATLANTIC CITY BLVD BAYVILLE, NJ 08271-1223 OCEAN
HUNTERDON 29 ROUTE 31 FLEMINGTON, NJ 08822-1634 HUNTERDON
MORRIS 1131 ROUTE 46 LEDGEWOOD, NJ 07852-9704 MORRIS
OCEAN 201 MATHISTOWN RD LITTLE EGG HARBOR TWP, NJ 08087-4033 OCEAN
CAMDEN 20 W KINGS HWY MOUNT EPHRAIM, NJ 08059-1303 CAMDEN
OCEAN 3161 LAKEWOOD RD POINT PLEASANT BORO, NJ 08742-2848 OCEAN
GLOUCESTER 500 EGG HARBOR RD SEWELL, NJ 08080-2336 GLOUCESTER
SUSSEX 126 WATER ST NEWTON, NJ 07860-1415 SUSSEX
CAMDEN 1601 KEARSLEY RD SICKLERVILLE, NJ 08081-9763 CAMDEN
CAPE MAY 3300 ROUTE 9 S RIO GRANDE, NJ 08242-1620 CAPE MAY
OCEAN 1311 ROUTE 37 W TOMS RIVER, NJ 08755-5049 OCEAN
MERCER 1702 KUSER RD HAMILTON, NJ 08610-3704 MERCER
MONMOUTH 1020 US HIGHWAY 9 HOWELL, NJ 07731-3309 MONMOUTH
CUMBERLAND 1015 N MAIN RD VINELAND, NJ 08360-2538 CUMBERLAND
SALEM 230 S BROADWAY PENNSVILLE, NJ 08070-2724 SALEM
MERCER 2021 NOTTINGHAM WAY HAMILTON, NJ 08619-3029 MERCER
BURLINGTON 7001 ROUTE 130 RIVERSIDE, NJ 08075-1868 BURLINGTON
HUNTERDON 418 US HIGHWAY 22 W WHITEHOUSE STATION, NJ 08889-3407 HUNTERDON
CAMDEN 504 KINGS HWY N CHERRY HILL, NJ 08034-1502 CAMDEN
SALEM 2 N VIRGINIA AVE PENNS GROVE, NJ 08069-1427 SALEM
CAPE MAY 5000 PARK BLVD WILDWOOD, NJ 08260-1428 CAPE MAY
GLOUCESTER 221 DELSEA DR N GLASSBORO, NJ 08028-2011 GLOUCESTER
ATLANTIC 2247 OCEAN HEIGHTS AVE EGG HARBOR TWP, NJ 08234-5933 ATLANTIC
MONMOUTH 3247 US HIGHWAY 9 FREEHOLD, NJ 07728-3493 MONMOUTH
MONMOUTH 4011 ROUTE 9 N HOWELL, NJ 07731-3307 MONMOUTH
OCEAN 1513 RICHMOND AVE POINT PLEASANT BORO, NJ 08742-3056 OCEAN
MERCER 2313 HIGHWAY 33 ROBBINSVILLE, NJ 08691-1412 MERCER
OCEAN 500 ROUTE 530 WHITING, NJ 08759-3124 OCEAN
MERCER 1801 NORTH OLDEN AVENUE EWING, NJ 08628-3108 MERCER
ATLANTIC 1801 ATLANTIC AVE ATLANTIC CITY, NJ 08401-6804 ATLANTIC
MERCER 301 N HARRISON PRINCETON, NJ 08540-0000 MERCER
OCEAN 595 EAST BAY AVE MAHANHAKIN, NJ 08050-3324 OCEAN
SUSSEX 47 HOPATCHUNG RD HOPATCONG, NJ 07843-1586 SUSSEX
ATLANTIC 6701 VENTNOR AVE VENTNOR CITY, NJ 08406-2151 ATLANTIC
MERCER 2645 SOUTH BROAD STREET TRENTON, NJ 08610-4011 MERCER
CAPE MAY 1332 WEST AVE OCEAN CITY, NJ 08226-3268 CAPE MAY
HUNTERDON 37 OLD ROUTE 22 CLINTON, NJ 08809-1342 HUNTERDON
MERCER 41 PRINCETON HIGHTSTOWN ROAD PRINCETON JUNCTION, NJ 08550 MERCER
ATLANTIC 6050 BLACK HORSE PIKE EGG HARBOR TWP, NJ 08234-9752 ATLANTIC
ATLANTIC 636 WHITE HORSE PIKE ABESCON, NJ 08201-0000 ATLANTIC
MERCER 970 PARKWAY AVE EWING, NJ 08618-2317 MERCER
ATLANTIC 1006 WHITE HORSE PIKE EGG HARBOR CITY, NJ 08215-1821 ATLANTIC
ATLANTIC 855 N. MAIN ST PLEASANTVILLE, NJ 08232-1441 ATLANTIC
ATLANTIC 3218 ATLANTIC AVE ATLANTIC CITY, NJ 08401-3509 ATLANTIC
MORRIS 11 WEST MAIN STREET CHESTER, NJ 07930-2407 MORRIS
MERCER 25 ROUTE 31 SOUTH STE T PENNINGTON, NJ 08534-2511 MERCER
HUNTERDON 428 COUNTY ROAD 513 CALIFON, NJ 07830-4160 HUNTERDON
ATLANTIC 1315 NEW ROAD NORTHFIELD, NJ 08225-1209 ATLANTIC
ATLANTIC 11 S WHITE HORSE PIKE HAMMONTON, NJ 08037-1872 ATLANTIC
ATLANTIC 1101 ATLANTIC AVENUE ATLANTIC CITY, NJ 08401-4805 ATLANTIC
ATLANTIC 3221 BAYSHORE ROAD NORTH CAPE MAY, NJ 08204-3709 ATLANTIC
CAPE M